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Why?????
I’ve been asked so many times over the past few months “Why do you want to move to France?” And it’s often followed by: ...
gillbenge63
7 hours ago4 min read


Packing the Poet - One Week To Go!!
In one week, I’ll be turning the key to a new chapter of my life — literally. A chapter with shutters, beams, sunflowers and a fig tree...
gillbenge63
Aug 142 min read


I Don't Feel Very Brave This Week!
We're buying a house in rural France in just 2 week's time. I'm navigating insurance, customs and a very confused dog. I'm packing up my...
gillbenge63
Aug 72 min read


The Magic in the Messy Middle
Somewhere between the dreaming and the doing, there’s a stage nobody talks about. It’s not Pinterest-pretty and it's not tied up in a...
gillbenge63
Jul 313 min read


Letter to 12 Year Old GillyB
Dear GillyB I know you’re frightened and confused. You’re struggling to understand all the emotions that are racing through your head...
gillbenge63
Jul 242 min read


Packing Up A Life: The Things I Can't Leave Behind
We’re packing up a life. Not just a house. Not just boxes. But a life . And let me tell you, it’s a strange kind of magic — deciding what...
gillbenge63
Jul 182 min read


The House That Found Us
The Countessa Adela approves of our new garden Some stories take years to write. And some, if you’re lucky, unfold in a flurry of...
gillbenge63
Jul 114 min read


When Life Nudges You (Hard!) Towards Your Dreams
They say you don’t always choose your turning points. Sometimes, life delivers them for you — uninvited, unexpected, and utterly...
gillbenge63
Jul 42 min read


Is It Ever Too Late To Start A New Chapter?
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about how we measure life. Not in birthdays or calendars, but in the moments we dare to say, “What if?” ...
gillbenge63
Jun 272 min read


I'm that embarrassing friend who........
Like most people nowadays, although I know a lot of people I have only a handful of really close friends and, I'm happy to say, I think I...
gillbenge63
Oct 25, 20242 min read


The Ugly Truth ....
I've always tried to write honestly and share my vulnerability with my readers, and today I'm really putting it out there. This is my...
gillbenge63
Nov 16, 20223 min read


Kindness Is A Super Power
A couple of months ago I was diagnosed with a large tumour on my left ovary and another in my uterus, at which point, as you can imagine,...
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Nov 11, 20222 min read


Standing In The Fog
That demon voice inside your head Sounding loud and clear Just one shot, just one more hit To numb your pain and fear Shut down your...
gillbenge63
Mar 17, 20221 min read


Saving a life......
Read how I faced up to my addictions and got my health and self respect back.
gillbenge63
Mar 16, 20228 min read


Eating My Emotions
I began "eating my emotions" after my dad died when I was a young girl. I was scared and, although I had my mum and 5 loving big...
gillbenge63
Feb 8, 20223 min read


Meet My Inner Bitch!
I have an inner bitch - and she is horrible! She says things like "you're rubbish at that" and "you're not qualified to do that" and her...
gillbenge63
Jan 27, 20223 min read
I'm Mixing My Own Colours!
Like many people I've spent way too much of my life worrying about what other people think of me and trying to "fit in". Now, I'm taking...
gillbenge63
Jan 25, 20221 min read
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